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RELATIONSHIP REPAIR · THE UPSTREAM METHOD™
There's so much more to understand about why we do the things we do.
There's an entire inner process shaping how you experience life and relationships. The Upstream Method™ teaches you how it works, why it matters, and how to use that understanding to create change.
STACEY N. GREER | RELATIONSHIP REPAIR COACH
ICF PCC · Best-Selling Author · Founder of The Upstream Method™
WHAT HAPPENS UPSTREAM?
Someone you love becomes quiet. You wonder if you've done something wrong. Anxiety builds, and before long, you're having an argument neither of you wanted.
But what if you could recognize the meaning you're giving that silence before it shapes your response?
That's where The Opportunity for change begins.
RELATIONSHIP REPAIR & PERSONAL GROWTH
Where would you like to begin?
Whether you're working on yourself, with your partner, or within your family, there's a place to begin.
Focused Private Coaching
Understand your emotional patterns, where they came from, and how to begin changing them.
Relationship Repair for Two
A structured process for two people ready to understand their patterns and work toward repair.
Crisis Coaching
Focused, immediate support to navigate an emotionally difficult relationship situation.
Becoming the Safest Place
Learn how your own inner process shapes your parenting and your child's experience of you.
THE UPSTREAM METHOD™
What if you could understand what happens inside you before you react?
Behavior is what we see. But there's an entire inner process that shapes it.
HOW OUR RESPONSES ARE SHAPED
The Past
The Present

When we understand what's happening upstream, we have the opportunity to change what happens downstream.

MEET STACEY
For more than 30 years, I’ve been helping people understand themselves — and each other — a little better.
The way we treat one another in our closest relationships matters deeply to me. My work is about helping people have better conversations, understand each other more fully, and bring more kindness, honesty and love into everyday life.
ICF PCC · MBTI® Practitioner · EQ-i Certified · NLP Master Practitioner
KIND WORDS
“I came to Stacey feeling like I had tried everything and nothing was changing. She helped me understand what was really happening between us and gave me a completely different way forward. For the first time in a long time, I felt hopeful about our relationship again.”
— Private Support Client
A LITTLE SUPPORT, FROM ME TO YOU
A little support can go a long way.
Join a free conversation or explore a practical resource you can use at home. Take what helps, and come back whenever you need it.
Upstream Conversations
for Moms
A free weekly Zoom for moms with children of any age. Come as you are, listen, ask questions, and leave with something practical to take into your week.
FREE WEEKLY CONVERSATION
Free Guides
& Resources
Simple, practical tools to help you communicate with more care, understand each other better, and create more connection in the relationships that matter most.
FREE TOOLS & GUIDES
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